With Tony’s background music, we started to talk about the time we spent together in New York, all the fun stuff, and the funny stuff for hours on end.
“For me, I was very much influenced by what you said, how you always approach things with your heart. At first, I couldn’t understand what that meant, but one day as we were walking on Broadway you said, ‘Just be grateful for anything, good stuff and all, because it’s all about the learning. Once you learn how to do that, you can accept anything.’ That’s when I really understood what it means to approach things with your heart. Even the smallest, most insignificant things in life have something you can learn from. That’s why you approach with a grateful spirit. These words of yours have changed my life, I think, so thank you.”
“That’s something I learned from someone, too. I think learning is amazing, really. It’s not just our parents and friends but it’s this society and the world that is always teaching us something.
It’s a matter of whether you think you can call it learning. Learning is not about getting the answers, but thinking about what has been given to you, to continue to think. So, you can say that learning is life itself.”
“That is so true. From tomorrow, I won’t be able to see each you for five years. But getting to know you, and somewhere in the world, someday, I know we will meet again. Until then, I’m going to do my best, do what I must do for my future. You will develop so much in the next five years, no doubt. I think it’s beautiful that we will meet again, all grown up, and I think that very thought will keep me going.”
“There is another thing I learned from you. That is this very Japanese notion of being courteous. That’s about valuing the present. The me of today will be the me years down the line. What I do now will reflect on my future self. This is a fact. Then what must I do now, right? What do I eat now and how? Who do I meet now and how? What should I do now? Answers to these questions, I think, is found in the word that you always said, courteous.”
“Thank you, Asha. We will have developed so much in five years and will meet again. Honestly, I am sad, but the fact that we have this promise in five years gives me so much to go on. What I learned from you, Asha, is about warmly embracing solitude. Don’t run away from it, embrace it with your heart. Because being alone is a precondition for a human being, it’s a given. This thought really gave me that solace.”
“Hey, that’s ‘Stranger in Paradise’ on the radio, our song.”

“Right, so we are ‘Stranger in Paradise.’ We met in New York, about to fly into a new world respectively, knowing that we will definitely meet again. Let the phrase ‘stranger in paradise’ be our comfort and welcome tomorrow. I love you, Asha.”
“I love you, too.”
Then, we both quietly put the phone down for the night.