After parting with Toko-san, I headed back to the hotel. All the way, I kept thinking about the same question. “What is this pure soul of mine?”
“Find what you believe in and work hard at it. Then you’ll see that many people will come around to help you. That’s New York,” she said.
I’m going to walk home today, no subway. So I just kept on going down Broadway towards downtown.
As I strolled down Broadway, I just kept on focusing the myriad lives that make up this amazing city. People that brush by, standing in the corner, going on about their lives…all the while trying to find the answer to this burning question.
That’s when I noticed this well-built man wearing a hoodie, walking this way.
For some strange reason, to me, he seemed to be walking with a spotlight. He kept advancing this way.
In front of his hoodie, there was a writing in gray and it said, ‘learn.’
As he came closer, our eyes met and he had a faint smile and gave a soundless, “Hey,” and just kept on walking.
From that point on, the word “learn” was burnt in my mind like some kind of a sign.
To “learn” is to gain something, to be more true to yourself.
“That’s it!”
It was like lightning had struck. It’s not about what I should do or want to do but about what I would learn or want to learn, today, here, now. And that’s all what it should be about. It’s about that earnest attitude to life, the pure soul.
It’s not about whether the time passes you by or not, but no matter how hard it may be, there is always something to learn in that moment. What’s important is the attitude to embrace each moment to find what can be learnt and that’s what it means to work hard.
Working hard is about learning. Yes, it’s not about whether you work on a job or on a relationship or life. Everything is about learning, and that’s all we should be thinking about. To stay as true as you possibly can, to see, to feel, to think, and take it all in. Life is one learning after another.
Beyond learning is probably gratitude. If all in life is learning, we should communicate this feeling of thanks. It’s not what we say because someone has done something for you. We have to always be grateful for everything in life.
I realized then that this attitude of appreciation is what will shape my lifestyle and my life going forward.
Thank you, New York! From this moment on, I am certain that I can change. Now I had a skip or two in my steps as I continued down the street.